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If you love someone…how do you set them free?

Friday, February 26th, 2010

Nadine Mercey

Dearest Friends,

a clients asks: “if you love someone…how are you supposed to set them free?

Haven’t we’ve all shared heartache in our life? Haven’t we all at some point reflected on others and can’t find the reasons why, when we KNOW we are supposed to move on?

I’d like to copy and paste some great conversations we’ve been having on FaceBook that help support people in their daily quests for a better life.

from FaceBook:

Nadine Mercey oh WOW!!..talk about responsive Universe..the person that this was intended for (and after I posted this, his ex-girlfriend emailed me asking me what to do on her end) …so how do you set someone free and move on?

February 18 at 2:24pm · A friend: I need an answer too!

February 18 at 2:36pm · Another friend: If you love them or at least care a lot for them, then you must want them to be happy. If you truly want them to be happy and they have told you they can’t be happy with you, then you must let them go. Think of this in terms of what you want (them to be happy), not what you don’t want (them to leave you). Not easy, but effective and better for you.

February 18 at 2:59pm · Another friend: Love is unconditional. Once conditions are placed, it’s not love anymore.

February 18 at 7:07pm · Nadine Mercey okay..love can be multi-dimensional..and it can be complicated..on this level we usually are powerful mirrors reflecting what we wanted to learn, and sometimes choose not to see..if you are still reflecting on a past loved one and know the time has expired between you..reflect on the lesson..what they taught you to be to grow..and then its easier to… let go..ACCEPTANCE is key..we all attract the appropriate experiences to bring us to this moment in time..in other words..it’s perfect as it is..stepping stones for what we are meant to be in the future..we are constantly aligning ourselves everyday..sometimes its hard to learn from that one person to bring you along on the journey..when it’s time it’s time to embrace what you have learned and know you can fall in love with the invisible and know you ARE LOVE and will be LOVED AGAIN…wish them well, send love, and creatively visualize the ties between you being severed…finished learning the lesson?..the teacher is gone..xo

February 18 at 9:43pm · Nadine Mercey thx for all the brilliant helpful tips..we’ve ALL been here before and possibly will be here in this moment again..speaking from much experience..lol (there was the “ex”..”Prince Harming” (ugh)..oh yes “Mr. 4 Now”..)..it does get easier ..remember a belief is just a thought we keep thinking..so if we aren’t getting what we want..what should we be … thinking…hhhhmmm…there is so much confusion as the world is getting out of the 3rd dimension and into the 4th..the new moon last Sunday has brought much love and heartache at the same time..believe in YOU..and all will be well..grab a blankie, hot toddie, a tissue (if you will) and a great movie..and take the time to release the emotions, thoughts and feelings until you are ready to move on..everyone does it in their own spin, in their own time..be patient with yours ..and KNOW you are loved!!! ..ALL is WELL..and life is supposed to be FUN!!!..xo

February 18 at 9:50pm · Nadine Mercey what do you do to get by until the hurt goes away?

February 18 at 9:56pm · Another Friend: How do you “get by” when you’re full of anger and broken? Emotions are like a roller coaster. Is it better to just go backwards to get the pain to stop?

February 18 at 9:59pm · Another Friend: Do your best to continue life? go out, try to reconnect with people who have influenced your life before love? Though, I feel, for love, the hurt may not go away, it will become a part of you and shape who you become from that experience, there’s no cut and paste answer for this, because love is so many things to so many people. For some it may be … somewhat easy, for others it will be a life long struggle to move on. But there are so many coping strategies, some better, some worse, I suppose the only suggestion that has worked in my life is to open doors and try to live. We can’t stop the world, and it won’t stop for us.

February 19 at 11:21am · Nadine Mercey well said!…the question is what do you want to “ask” for in life to be..what do you want to manifest?..what do you want to feel..we need to change the way we think ..we need to believe we can be worthy of so much MORE..that’s the only way it will come..until then..hang out with positive people, read positive books, see positive movies (comedy … works)..buy more makeup and hair gel (cheaper than new shoes..kidding..) whatever it takes to make you happy for the moment..one day at a time..and realize in a “snap shot picture” today all is well and you have what you need…
..please do move forward..the past is past.. hope this helps

February 19 at 12:27pm · Another friend: Imagine a river. How the water flows down its path. It has its bends and curves along the way. The water flows fast as in the rapids and it flows calmly. But you never see a restriction. Same with love. It has its bends and turns, its rapids and its calmness. But it should never have a restriction. Just let it flow

February 19 at 12:50pm · Nadine Mercey excellent ..creative visualization is everything..having an intention that is positive and not being attached to the outcome is opening yourself to the unlimited potential in all of us. nothing is specific (and not always what it seems to be)..go with “the flow” and the flow will respond quicker as you aren’t blocking what is meant to come to you in response to your needs..feel the flow dahlin’..anyone else want to add to help our friends move forwards?

February 19 at 4:51pm · Nadine Mercey first instinct is to gravitate to another relationship..
…generate your own warmth and keep your distance from “the other porcupines”..till you get your spine ♥

February 19 at 5:09pm · Another friend: what if the other person wasn’t ready to let go? and then doesn’t know how to open up to the situation because hurt now surrounds them?
February 19 at 6:29pm · Another Friend: back to you Nadine. I’m stumped on last post. All I can think is what would Dr Phil say to that.

February 19 at 7:02pm · Nadine Mercey everyone has choice..we need to respect others choices as well..even if it hurts ..for you, it’s not as it seems (so a bit of a twist for you..)..I hope you called and followed up with your instinct…to get out what you needed to say dahlin’..getting rid of that residual energy is everything for you..enlightening so to speak..you will learn more from each other..(whoops that was my outside voice..)..I think you know ♥

February 21 at 2:56am · i did follow up, and it was everything i wasnt expecting. a lot floating around, so much clouding my thoughts. i dont feel so much hurt anymore, but i do feel unsure. i felt better once i respected the words that were being said and listened instead of pressing forward. thank you for all the words of advice and comments, it really helped me to be … opening and really listen and hear what was being said, once i finally clued in to take a step back. … however, there are still questions unanswered.

February 21 at 9:47pm · Nadine Mercey, so glad you are feeling better, things will get clearer..have a perfect day ♥

If you are on Facebook, please ask me to be your friend and join in on some interesting conversations!!!

just sang this to a famous… actor over the phone..lol (okay it was a great way to end a serious conversation about his break up)..those Hollywood break ups…

~ hope you find a little love to raise your vibration to heal

with love
Nadine

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Unfolding after a distance healing…

Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010

Nadine Mercey

Dearest Friends,

Everyone experiences different things or different sensations during and after an energy session.

All will feel really light, you’ll vibrate, and feel more focused to attract positive things to you.

Quite often, most will see the energy during a session (even if they have never seen energy before). Here is a letter that a lady voluntarily wrote to express her feelings from her first ever energy session.

Today we were healing from a distance and we have never met each other. (I was a referral and was recommended to assist to heal this lady with Cancer).

“Vibrational healing session with Nadine Mercey on February 3, 2010

Since nobody has ever done energy work on me, I was a little bit skeptical about the whole thing. I had only a little idea how it could work and what to expect. I decided to stay open and go with the flow.

When Nadine called, she said up to front that I will hear noises – I didn’t know that she meant it literary. She grounded me to the Earth first and then she started on balancing of my Chakras. When she was opening my Root Chakra, the noises started – she was sneezing and burping – I guess as she was disposing of my excess energy. Every healer has a different approach to the energy work and disposing of the other person’s energy and disease, so I have not found it disturbing.

I felt that the Chakras that needed the most work were the Root Chakra, Hara/Navel Chakra and the Heart Chakra. Even though I have normally no problem imagining colours, the colours of these three Chakras were constantly eluding my inner eyes. However, I could see their colours clearly later - after she started to work on the upper chakras and went down to my spine again.

When all Chakras have been opened, I finally started to feel the energy as she send it to the right side of my body. As she increased the level of vibrations, I felt a pressure in my abdomen. The pressure decreased partially when she finished her work saying that I will be surrounded by a high level of energy for the next 20 minutes or so and that I should just relax.

No wonder that the pressure in my abdomen has not disappeared completely – I needed to relieve my bladder. When I was back, I lied down and the most unusual things started to happen for the next 30 minutes. It was not a dream – I was fully awakened, but I had no control over the images except close to the very end. Besides, my night dreams are more like little stories. Even though they do not lack the poetics of a dream, they are very logical - having a beginning, middle and end.

I could assign my most recent experience to the “vision” category – as the one I had about one week ago. I have been blocked for almost two decades. Suppressing my feelings, my wants and needs, giving myself the illusion that I do not need and want anything – because if you want nothing, you cannot be disappointed when you don’t get it. It was a really misguided idea how to spend the rest of my life. I had nothing to work for and look towards to.

During the past year, I have been trying to figure out what my wish and my visions of the future were. And suddenly the vision of my future activity popped up. It was not a thought, it was like an energy spike – what I got first were the dynamics of my wish and then other images concerning what should be done appeared. I rather felt than fully understood what I wanted to do for myself and for all the people at the same time. So it was the breakthrough, the opening.

As I have lied down, I put my hands on my abdomen and tried to relax. And at the same time, I started “to see red” – not just behind my closed eyes, the red fulfilled my whole head. “This is a stroke!” my mind signaled in a panic. However, the compact red was suddenly replaced by a light blue light that changed quickly to grey purplish storm clouds that were flowing in all directions for a while and then slowly dispensed.

I was in some kind of a deep grayish shaft that was large at the bottom and grounded in me. It was narrowing towards a very distant opening that started to show a bright light that illuminated the upper part of the shaft. Then under the light a piece of light blue appeared. For some reason, silver ropes or chains were hanging haphazardly in the space, reflecting the light from the source and moving slightly like in a light wind. When I think of it now, from all things they resembled DNA chains.

The next image was really strange – I was inside of something. I saw the inner lining and blood vessels – I was in some kind of organ. I was in some organ inside of my body. My mind again started to interfere: “Get out! You can get trapped here!” When it had no impact, I tried again: “It is not possible to be inside your body! It is not normal!” I wanted to have the experience, so I quieted my mind and looked around – I saw the top of an oversized organ.

It took me a while to realize that it was my bladder and what I saw was its upper part and a part of my right ureter. I have not seen any cancer at first and then I saw some separated little tumors – not a continuous mass. Sparks of energy started to fly across – as electricity discharge between two electrodes. Then I witnessed something as cell division or communication – purple liquid was spreading from one cell to the other one.

After a while, the images started to change fast – a shaft with light, a grayish-red shaft with a gold jewel hanging in a space…Then I was inside of my bladder again picking up the cancerous bumps and giving them the Universe to dispose of them. Suddenly the colours stated to change in a fast succession – all shades of grey, purple, red, green, or mosaic of all of them. I decided to wait for the blue light again, and when it appeared, I got up.

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I am a quite rational person, so I am still a little bit in shock from this experience. The first part has been guided, and to some extent, I have expected what was happening. But the second part was nothing I have ever heard of, nothing I have ever thought of, or nothing that I would be able to imagine under normal circumstances. I had an “inside of body experience” – was I in another dimension?

I guess at this point, I do not try to rationalize it. I do not look for an explanation – I am just trying to absorb it. I have the intention to heal fully. But whatever the final result is, I thank Nadine just for the experience and for starting me on my journey to self-healing.”

~ you never know what a day might bring you

After the second session the clients…a few days later she writes:

Hi Nadine:

Thank you for today’s session - I feel fantastic!

I had not seen any images today afterward - it was more on a physical level. The numbness and tingling in my feet from the knees down had returned for a while, then I felt a pressure in my belly again and after that I got a slight headache. And then the “unbelievable lightness of being” came. I fell asleep and woke up just in time for lunch.

Thanks again. I will think of you tomorrow.

with love
Nadine

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unfold, unfold, unfold..to help others

Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010

Nadine Mercey

Dearest Friends,

Michelle survived CLL ~ Chronic Lymphomacytic Leukiema ~ (Blood Cancer) through our energy sessions..it only took 1 to see significant improvement..and 3 to get her off Chemo Therapy

Here is her amazing story…