Nadine Mercey
People around the world are experiencing all kinds of unusual things due to this accelerated vibration. Millions of people feel like they are in a blender or riding an emotional roller coaster as they go about their daily activities. People are having dramatic mood swings, which are very out of character from their usual behavior patterns. Other people are having abnormal bouts with fear, anxiety, stress, and even panic attacks. I know there are a lot of stressful things taking place in people’s lives due to the collapse of the economy, the housing market shifts, and the loss of jobs, et cetera, but at some level, this phenomenon is happening to everyone regardless of whether or not they are personally affected by outer-world circumstances.
People are experiencing all kinds of unusual physical symptoms, which they have not suffered in the past. Many are having headaches for the first time or painful back problems. Others may not be able to focus their thoughts or their short-term memory may seem to be failing. People are experiencing unexplained flu-like symptoms, allergies, excessive fatigue, sleepiness or insomnia, joint and muscle pain, digestive problems, dizziness or lightheadedness, and every other physical, mental, and emotional upsets under the Sun.” Patricia Diane Cota-Robles.
With all this confusion, and we seem to run our paths fueled by our fears, in the attempt to understand that many of us have not experienced true love…
…true love…how do we find it…should we be more open to sending or receiving the simple compliment?
…is there a simple way…of helping each other..?
When you make eye contact with someone, and actually think positively about someones’s physical appearance (a nice shirt they are wearing, their eyes, their hair catches your attention), think how you feel…feel how you feel…share how you feel..and watch the healing process start!
Paying someone a compliment can be a very natural practice for some people. However, many people may find giving a compliment difficult. Giving compliments is critical to building relationships and encouraging other people. It is easy once you have an idea of how to go about it.
It’s infectuous once you connect with this thought process, the positive thoughts are raising your vibration to heal (changing your thought patterns, catching your “slide”, the negative feelings one might have). By throwing your thoughts out there in your information or body field (your auric field), your heart first picks up the electromagnetic vibration of that positive thought and connects another electromagnetic field to the brain. The brain in turn releases a chemical reaction through the nervous system that is released in the body that is designed to heal on many levels.
When we project positive information out in the universe, we are attaching ourselves to other like minded information fields for the purpose of evolving to finding our truths.
In turn you are sending the positive vibes out to heal others in hopes that they pay it forward to someone else who cares 
Wow…if we were all aware how simple it is to make someone (or many) feel better, there would be less fear, more belief in the universe to heal many..and yes less frown lines too!
We would be more open to receiving more positive thinking patterns to just be appreciative of, and respecting one another…we would be learning to want to help each other more
How to Pay a Compliment
By kdavidson, eHow Member
Difficulty: Moderately Easy Instructions
Step 1
Pay attention to positive traits, features and characteristics in the person you would like to compliment.
Step 2
Decide on what trait, feature or characteristic to compliment them on. This doesn’t have to be complex. It can be as simple as letting them know you like the way they style their hair. However, if you would like to compliment them on something a little more profound, such as a book they have authored, that is acceptable as well.
Step 3
Find a casual moment to pay this person the compliment. This could be in crossing paths or during a longer encounter, such as dinner or lunch. You don’t necessarily have to plan this moment out. If you decide you would like to compliment them on their style of clothing, determine to do so the next time you are in conversation with them. The compliment does not have to have a specific time or place. (”don’t forget to add a description of why you like what you like about her and how it makes you feel”..I say).
Step 4
State your compliment with a tone of sincerity. This can be done by emphasizing the statement rather than rushing through it. Also, using their name in your compliment brings a tone of sincerity. For example, “Jane, I really love the way you are always smiling in the morning.”
Step 5
Look the person in the eyes when you pay them the compliment. This will reinforce your sincerity. Eye contact is very important in human interaction. Looking away may distract from your words or raise doubt in reference to your sincerity.
Step 6
Understand that giving a compliment does not mean that you should expect one in return. A sincere compliment is meant to be given simply for the uplifting of the other person and not as a means to receive one yourself.
…another suggestion rule of complimenting - compliments tend to linger in the minds of the ones that receive them. The more reason for you to pay only the “right” compliments. For each time he/she thinks of the compliment and it was “right”, he/she’ll think of you in a positve manner. So recognize and utilize the lingering aspect of compliments and only pay the “right” compliments to have him/her feel continously positive towards you :-).
Body compliments are better avoided in the initial stages of your interaction…lol
with love
Nadine